I am not sure that I have a real stance on this one, but this has been the debate with some of my friends. I really think it depends on the people and their personalities, but once again I am told that I am confused on the topic, so here we go:
As I was heading out for drinks with some colleagues yesterday, we started talking about dating and relationships, now you all know it’s probably one of my least favorite topics to discuss, but I thought what the heck, be a good sport and participate. Well it wasn’t long before we got on the topic of gender roles in the courting process. Now I am a woman who has never asked a man on a date, just the thought of it makes me break out in a cold sweat, lol. When my male colleague heard this he was shocked. He quickly told me that I needed to step my dating views up to the 21st century and how the game has changed. According to him, women approach him all the time and he appreciates it. While I do not see anything wrong with a woman knowing what she wants and going after it (I’m very much a believer of that in the majority on my life), I have been told by both males and females, that if a man really wants something there is nothing that can keep him from getting it, and that includes talking to or being with a woman that he likes. So I am conflicted, which is why I am hoping to get some help in this weeks relationship poll. So here it goes…
